Thank you! Here are your personal results. Your answer is the one with the star
next to it. The answers are ranked from
the most frequent to the least frequent response, as indicated by the percentages.
Survey Results:
STARS indicate YOUR RESPONSE.
1) Your age: (Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| | 27.0% | 18 to 24 |
| | 14.8% | 25 to 29 |
| | 13.2% | 30 to 34 |
| | 11.0% | 35 to 39 |
| | 10.1% | 40 to 44 |
| 9.5% | 45 to 49 |
| | 5.2% | under 18 |
| | 5.0% | 50 to 54 |
| | 2.4% | 55 to 59 |
| | 1.4% | 60 to 69 |
| | 0.5% | 70 to 80+ |
2) What race or ethnic group are you: (Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| 75.1% | Caucasian |
| | 6.4% | Other |
| | 5.9% | Asian |
| | 5.6% | African-American |
| | 5.2% | Latino |
| | 1.7% | Native American |
3) What sex are you? (Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| 56.4% | Male |
| | 43.1% | Female |
| | 0.3% | Transgender |
| | 0.2% | Other |
4) What is your annual income bracket? (Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| | 34.5% | $25,000 to $50,000 |
| | 19.0% | $12,000 to $25,000 |
| | 18.5% | Less than $12,000 |
| 14.5% | $50,000 to $75,000 |
| | 7.0% | $75,000 to $100,000 |
| | 6.4% | Over $100,000 |
5) What level of education have you achieved?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| | 44.4% | I've attended some college |
| | 22.9% | I've graduated with a BA |
| | 19.5% | I've finished High School |
| | 9.6% | I have a Masters degree |
| 3.7% | I have a Doctorate degree |
6) Have you had or do you have children?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| 52.0% | No |
| | 48.0% | Yes |
7) I am in a relationship now that is: (Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| 28.3% | Less than a year long |
| | 18.2% | More than a year/not married |
| | 14.7% | Married/less than 7 years |
| | 14.3% | Married/ less than 20 years |
| | 13.5% | I am not in a relationship at this time |
| | 8.3% | Married/20 years and more |
| | 2.6% | More than 7 years/not married |
8) If you are in a relationship now are you sexual with this person?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| 84.6% | Yes |
| | 15.4% | No |
9) I am in: (Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| | 77.2% | A monogamous relationship |
| 22.8% | A sexually open relationship |
10) I see my current relationship as:
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| 38.3% | Easy and fulfilling |
| | 33.0% | Challenging but fulfilling |
| | 16.4% | Easy but unsatisfying |
| | 12.2% | Difficult and unfulfilling |
11) I see relationship primarily as (check as many as apply):
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| 70.2% | An open, ever changing dynamic that includes romance, passion friendship, learning, healing, spiritual growth |
| 46.3% | Security, family, steady companionship, and stability |
| 42.9% | An adventure |
| | 20.6% | Something I yearn for and have not attained |
| 19.8% | Easy for me |
| | 14.3% | Difficult/Frustrating |
| 10.0% | A way to bring children into the world |
| | 6.6% | A series of short-lived experiences that tend to run their course quickly |
12) If partnered, what level of trust do you feel with your partner?
( 2236 respondents )
| 59.7% | Very trusting, can say anything to them |
| | 35.6% | Average, have to be careful sometimes |
| | 4.7% | Not trusting, have to side step many issues |
13) Has your capacity for love:
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| 72.8% | Increased over the years |
| | 14.5% | Stayed the same over the years |
| | 12.7% | Decrease over the years |
14) How important is sex in your life?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| | 48.6% | Very important |
| 33.9% | Important |
| | 15.3% | Somewhat important |
| | 2.3% | Not important |
15) How do you feel about your health?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| | 50.9% | Fair, I do some exercising and I eat fairly well |
| 33.4% | Good, I exercise and eat well-balanced meals |
| | 9.3% | Excellent, I'm in top shape |
| | 6.4% | Not very good, I'm in poor health |
16) How do you feel about your body?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| 46.3% | I'm just ok about the size and shape of my body |
| | 28.8% | I like my body size and shape |
| | 18.5% | I'm constantly critical of my body |
| | 6.4% | I wish I had a different body altogether |
17) I self-pleasure or masturbate:
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| | 40.4% | Sometimes |
| | 35.4% | Quite often |
| 17.5% | In front of or with my partner during lovemaking |
| | 6.7% | Never |
18) (For Women) I have orgasms when I masturbate (give an estimate):
( 1087 respondents )
| | 56.0% | All of the time |
| | 19.1% | Usually |
| | 13.0% | Never |
| | 6.5% | Some of the time |
| | 5.3% | Rarely |
19) (For Women) I have orgasms when I have partnered sex (give an estimate):
( 1080 respondents )
| | 39.0% | Usually |
| | 23.2% | All of the time |
| | 20.7% | Some of the time |
| | 9.3% | Rarely |
| | 7.8% | Never |
20) (For Men) I ejaculate when I masturbate (give an estimate):
( 1379 respondents )
| | 70.7% | All of the time |
| 19.7% | Usually |
| | 5.8% | Some of the time |
| | 2.4% | Never |
| | 1.5% | Rarely |
21) (For Men) I ejaculate when I orgasm during partnered sex (give an estimate):
( 1373 respondents )
| | 67.1% | All of the time |
| 24.3% | Usually |
| | 5.5% | Some of the time |
| | 1.7% | Never |
| | 1.4% | Rarely |
22) (For Men) I have several (or more) peaks/orgasms before I ejaculate (ejaculation control) (This can be through masturbation or partnered sex):
( 1385 respondents )
| 30.3% | Some of the time |
| | 24.9% | Rarely |
| | 21.3% | Never |
| | 17.3% | Usually |
| | 6.1% | All of the time |
23) (For Women) I recognize that I (check as many as apply):
( 1048 respondents )
| | 69.3% | Have Clitoral Orgasms |
| | 51.0% | Have Blended Orgasms (both of the above together) |
| | 46.5% | Ejaculate a fluid when I orgasm |
| | 41.9% | Have Vaginal/G-spot Orgasms |
| | 35.4% | Have Multiple Clitoral Orgasms in a close row |
| | 23.7% | Have Multiple Vaginal/G-spot Orgasms in a row |
| | 7.5% | Do not Orgasm |
24) How often do you have partnered sex?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| | 19.6% | Twice a week. |
| | 17.0% | Several times a month. |
| | 14.8% | Every other day. |
| | 13.8% | Not having sex at this time. |
| | 11.2% | Once a week. |
| 7.0% | Once a day. |
| | 6.6% | Once a month. |
| | 5.1% | Several times a year. |
| | 5.0% | More than once a day. |
25) Did you have oral sex during your last sexual event?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| 69.5% | Yes |
| | 30.5% | No |
26) What was the approximate length of your last sexual event?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| | 28.4% | 15 to 30 minutes |
| | 22.0% | 30 to 45 minutes |
| | 15.1% | 45 to 60 minutes |
| | 11.5% | Less than 15 minutes |
| | 9.8% | Up to 1+ 1/2 hours |
| 7.5% | Longer than 2 hours |
| | 5.6% | Up to 2 hours |
27) How would you categorize your current sexual relationship (check as many as apply)?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| | 41.6% | Ok/satisfying |
| 40.6% | Exciting |
| 33.9% | Adventurous |
| 25.3% | Blissful |
| | 18.9% | Spiritual |
| | 16.6% | Boring |
28) In the last 12 months have you had problems with (check as many as apply)?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| 35.2% | None of the above |
| | 29.1% | Speaking to your partner about what you want and like |
| | 26.9% | Not being focused/your mind wanders during sex |
| | 24.2% | Relaxing |
| | 20.1% | Having an orgasm |
| | 15.0% | Lubricating |
| | 11.2% | Achieving an erection |
| | 9.2% | Pain during penetration |
29) Men, do you feel you:
( 1376 respondents )
| | 39.7% | a combination of 1 and 2/varies from time to time |
| 34.9% | usually have control over when you climax/ejaculate |
| | 19.7% | usually climax/ejaculate too early |
| | 5.7% | have difficulty climaxing/ejaculating |
30) Have you ever tried Viagra or other sexual aids of that nature (check as many as apply)?
( 305 respondents )
| | 56.1% | I have tried herbal aids |
| | 31.1% | I have tried Viagra |
| | 16.1% | My partner has tried herbal aids |
| | 15.4% | My partner has tried Viagra |
31) After sex I feel (check as many as apply):
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| 58.7% | Blissful and full |
| | 40.1% | Sleepy |
| 35.0% | Energized |
| | 18.8% | Unsatisfied/wanting more |
| | 7.4% | Withdrawn |
| | 4.3% | Used and depressed |
32) My partner/s and I usually spend:
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| 50.7% | As long as we want/varies |
| | 18.8% | 10 to 30 minutes on foreplay |
| | 17.5% | Less than 10 minutes on foreplay |
| | 6.6% | Does not apply/not partnered at this time |
| | 6.4% | Little or no time on foreplay |
33) Generally, while making love I:
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| 55.3% | Focus on both of us equally |
| | 39.3% | Focus primarily on my partner's needs |
| | 5.4% | Focus primarily on my needs |
34) (Answer if you experience orgasms)
After orgasm I experience (check as many as apply): (Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| 63.8% | A sense of closeness and connection with my partner |
| | 54.5% | Release and ready for a rest |
| 52.3% | A deep sense of peace and fulfillment |
| 18.6% | Oneness with all of life |
| 18.6% | Release and ready to get on with my life |
| | 12.0% | Unfulfilled and wanting more sexual sensation |
| | 9.2% | Unfulfilled and wanting more connection |
| | 3.3% | Unpleasant feelings and emotions |
| | 1.0% | Pain |
35) Making love with my partner is more than sexual release; it's an experience of union with what I think of as spirit or our souls meeting.
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| | 44.4% | Occasionally |
| 40.3% | Frequently |
| | 15.3% | Never |
36) I make love with some kind of light on.
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| | 48.3% | Frequently |
| | 34.8% | Rarely |
| 13.0% | Always |
| | 3.8% | Never |
37) Please estimate how much of the time you have your eyes open during lovemaking?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| 47.1% | 80% |
| | 30.3% | 50% |
| | 11.2% | 25% |
| | 10.0% | 100% |
| | 1.4% | Never |
38) Have you ever orgasmed while looking into your partner's eyes?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| | 31.1% | Occasionally |
| | 25.0% | Frequently |
| | 22.3% | Never |
| | 19.1% | Rarely |
| 2.5% | Always |
39) I have experienced my partner as "divine"- an embodiment of god/goddess.
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| | 43.7% | Never |
| 37.8% | Occasionally |
| | 18.5% | Frequently |
40) What percentage of ALL sexual experiences in your life would you rate as positive?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| | 44.9% | 80% |
| | 22.2% | 60% |
| | 13.2% | 40% |
| 10.2% | 100% |
| | 8.4% | 20% |
| | 1.0% | 0% |
41) Do you feel that you have as much time as you want for sex?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| | 63.2% | No |
| 25.9% | Yes |
| | 11.0% | Don't know/can't decide |
42) Do you use fantasy in your lovemaking?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| | 64.9% | Sometimes |
| 25.9% | Never |
| | 9.2% | Always |
43) If yes, do you tell your partner or involve your partner in the fantasy?
( 1957 respondents )
| | 35.0% | Never |
| | 34.8% | We sometimes talk about a fantasy |
| | 23.2% | We have played out a fantasy a few times |
| | 7.0% | We play out fantasies on a regular basis |
44) Have you ever experienced two or more people in one sexual encounter?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| 71.9% | No |
| | 28.1% | Yes |
45) Have you ever had a mystical, out-of-body or Kundalini experience?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| 76.6% | No |
| | 16.6% | Yes |
| | 6.8% | Yes, during a sexual experience |
46) Did you learn about sex through (check as many as apply):
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| 76.2% | Peers, friends |
| 69.9% | Books/Magazines |
| 36.4% | School |
| | 31.1% | Other |
| | 23.0% | Parents |
| | 17.6% | Another adult |
| | 16.0% | An older mentor |
47) Have you ever been forced into having sex?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| 70.2% | No |
| | 24.8% | Yes |
| | 5.0% | Don't know/Not sure |
48) Have you ever forced someone into having sex with you?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| 89.9% | No |
| | 5.4% | Yes |
| | 4.7% | Don't know/can't tell |
49) In general I lead:
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| 67.6% | A somewhat stressful life |
| | 18.1% | A very stressful life |
| | 14.3% | A stress free life |
50) Have you seen a therapist or psychologist in the last 12 months?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| 82.9% | No |
| | 17.1% | Yes |
51) How would you rate your overall mental health:
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| | 52.9% | Good |
| 32.7% | Excellent |
| | 12.8% | Fair |
| | 1.7% | Not Good |
52) Are you currently taking any antidepressant, SSRIs (Prozac, Zoloft, etc.) or herbal remedies for depression?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| 90.8% | No |
| | 9.2% | Yes |
53) Have you had the experience of being sexually abused?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| 80.5% | No |
| | 19.5% | Yes |
54) How many sex partners have you had in the last 12 months?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| 56.4% | 1 |
| | 32.4% | 2-4 |
| | 32.4% | 2-4 |
| | 6.7% | 5+ |
| | 6.7% | 5+ |
| | 4.4% | none |
55) Generally, how happy have you been with your personal life during the past 12 months?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| | 43.0% | Generally satisfied, pleased |
| | 43.0% | Generally satisfied, pleased |
| 25.3% | Very happy |
| 25.3% | Very happy |
| | 17.6% | Fairly unhappy |
| | 17.6% | Fairly unhappy |
| | 9.8% | Extremely happy |
| | 9.8% | Extremely happy |
| | 4.3% | Unhappy most of the time |
| | 4.3% | Unhappy most of the time |
56) Do you think of yourself as:
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| | 87.2% | Heterosexual |
| | 87.2% | Heterosexual |
| 9.8% | Bisexual |
| 9.8% | Bisexual |
| | 1.5% | Homosexual |
| | 1.5% | Homosexual |
| | 1.5% | Other |
| | 1.5% | Other |
57) During the past 12 months, how much of the time has anger, frustration or emotional problems interfered with your sexual activities?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| | 37.9% | A little of the time |
| | 37.9% | A little of the time |
| 27.8% | None of the time |
| 27.8% | None of the time |
| | 25.3% | Some of the time |
| | 25.3% | Some of the time |
| | 7.5% | Most of the time. |
| | 7.5% | Most of the time. |
| | 1.5% | All of the time |
| | 1.5% | All of the time |
58) During the past 12 months, how much of the time have children, time constraints or external pressures in your life interfered with your sexual activities?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
| | 30.2% | Some of the time |
| | 30.2% | Some of the time |
| 27.0% | A little of the time |
| 27.0% | A little of the time |
| | 23.5% | None of the time |
| | 23.5% | None of the time |
| | 16.3% | Most of the time. |
| | 16.3% | Most of the time. |
| | 3.0% | All of the time |
| | 3.0% | All of the time |
59) In the last 12 months, have you used any of the following during lovemaking (check as many as apply):
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
60) If you are heterosexually partnered, which of you, in general, wants sex more often?
( 2231 respondents )
61) Are you or have you ever been interested in being more creative around your sexual experiences (check as many as apply)?
(Required)
( 2392 respondents )
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